In the spirit of valentines day, a friend of mine wrote this (you know who you are...)....it's a different aspect in an interesting way...

"love exists in this world and we are taught to love each other including our enemies. But to then misinterpret this gift and lie that love should be what sustains a relationship of two people is unfounded. The love that led to marriage is a thing of the past. Its more realistic to be in tolerance than to be in the so-called love.Tolerance is the new ways of doing things and it works. People are together simply because they tolerate each other.period!!"